Pick a card, any card. From toddlers to teens, find out how to relax, stay in charge, and turn around any situation without threatening, bribing, or blowing your top.

Polly’s new iOS app gives you the words that inspire compliance, the lingo that reduces shame, and the phrases that build trust and connection.

The Parent School app is the Holy Grail of finding more productive ways to say whatever you need to say to your kids, to your partner or to the world as you set boundaries, take the lead and tune into those you love. When you have the sense that your words have become white noise, are inciting rebellion or are simply driving others away from you, tune in to Parent School to replace phrases like "What is your problem?" with a simple alternative way of talking that will not only inspire compliance but build closeness and an intrinsic desire to follow you at the same time. So go ahead borrow some Other Words from The LAB Method besides "That is not OK!" to keep your relationships humming.